Family Matters

[silvergirl]

nice post 64turtles, i agree with much of what you say.

sgx

[Tink]

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[64Turtles]

I put my sons on the "If you break You buy" program and after I actually did it they have gotten more conscience on how they treat my home an things. I allow for the accidents but give an evil eye just for effect...... Glad to be of any assistance to the lady. Have a g'nite all.........

[Dizzy Lizzy]

hi im not sure that i should be putting this on here but im going to anyway, i just wanted to say as most of you now no that im going for the split with my husband of 18 years. well yes im scared and i feel very guilty as its not him thats changed but i have moved on and im afraid its not really with him, i do love him and i do care but im not in love with him, and this is something that i have found out since not drinking and dealing with my issues, issues huh who wants them lol.
anyway what im really saying is apart from feeling guilty and bit scared and yes lonely im also looking forward to a new beginning. i no this time i will be making the right choices for me. so ok i have made alot of wrong choices in my life, but i cant spend the rest of my life regretting, its not all been bad just some of it.
so with some ups and downs here is to a new beginning. love as always to you all lizzy xxx

[Andy]

Lizzie

Hope things workout for you soon, guess it must be a bit scary, with a bit of excitement thrown in...

It will be an odd w/e for youI suppose getting used to be on your own, lots of peeps around here when you need a chat

All the best

Andy

[Dizzy Lizzy]

thanks Andy, it will be strange and sad but we will just have to see how things go. love lizzy xxx

[Firstday]

Lizzy I split with my husband after being with him for 20 years (12 married) this was 13 years ago (we met v v young!) It sounds quite different though as I was absolutely devastated and had two young children and the implications of them living in a one parent family, however I now can't even imagine why I was with him for so long, I'd really never known anything different
I wish you well, I know that with all change, be it positive or nagative, there will be feelings of loss, may you be strong in your move on to a new life

[Dizzy Lizzy]

hi firstday, thanks for that, i have all sorts of feeling going on with me at the moment,i just hope that im making the right choices for now. i dont really think there is a right choice as its only time apart that can make a difference. but thank you for sharing that with me. i think this weekend is going to be the worsed ever though. i hope there will be pleanty of people on here. take care love lizzy xxx

[Andy]

Hi Lizzy

Dont worry we'll be here for you

Andy

[Dizzy Lizzy]

thanks Andy.x

[Tink]

Sending you some love Lizzy, we will survive love. Hang in there and know that you will be in my thoughts this weekend.

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[Dizzy Lizzy]

Tink i liked your post thankyou you have all been so kind to me and here i am just feeling so down and unsure bout things, well i no really but i hate things at the moment. xxx

[Firstday]

Hang in there Lizzy x

[Dizzy Lizzy]

im trying i want to run away

[joanneL]

is it hot drink and try to get some rest time my soft mare xx

[Dizzy Lizzy]

lol im coming to stay with you jo xxx

[joanneL]

Only if you do the housework and ironing and washing up and cook me tea !! You wont have time for a drink xxxxxxx

[delta heavy]

Hi maliz
hope it all works out for you, i split from my wife 6 months ago and yes it can be lonely and depressing however i am finding out i am responsible for my own hapiness and since splitting have found new interests and also a pleasant sense of responsibilty as i know that only me can make me happy and if i am depressed/lonely only me can bring myself out of it and this has led to some very enjoyable times which i would never have experienced if we hadnt split
take care
delta

[Dizzy Lizzy]

hi Delta, thanks for that, imglad things are working out ok for you now, and i really feel that they will for me to.
jo yes i will do your housework and anything else, so when am i coming to stay then lol love you xxx

[Dizzy Lizzy]

well i guess its that time of day, feeling like crap now.i no im doing the right thing with the split so why am i feeling the way i do, i have no right to when its me thats making the split happen x