Tad I get why you’d want to drink. I’m not saying it’s right but jesus, I completely get it with how you must be feeling at the moment.
I really really hope you get a resolution soon, this limbo must be horrible xxx

Morning all. Mr T you’re doing so well. Starting running was one of the best things I’ve ever done in terms of my fitness and though I’ve been in and off it over the years, I’m well and truly back into it at the moment and it gives me a bit of a high. I love ‘mood hoover’, I know a few people like t...

Wow tad! Big news but you know if this is right for you and do fat, although a really sad situation, you actually sound really positive

Sorry Seren I only just saw this! I’ll be honest and say I did meet someone, I knew they weren’t going to be a long term option as he liked a drink and I also discovered he had a cocaine habit 🙄 so was definitely not going to be a long term partner but it did really drive home to me that I was wasti...

Morning all. Been catching up Tad, I’ve been pretty busy this weekend so not online much. Had wine Saturday night but thankfully kicked myself into touch when I woke up yesterday and have seemed to manage to swerve one of my benders so far. Tad I don’t know what to say, you know I’ve gone through a ...

Tad just woke up and read your post.
No judgement here and you know my story also.
I shall reply properly in a bit but you know this is a safe place for you to come and chat xxx

Evening all. Just off to bed but thought I’d check in and say goodnight xx

Morning, I’m here!
Bloody good job on the c25k Mr T, you must nearly have completed it? Do you think you’ll keep it up?

Evening all. Deb
First morning back at work was non eventful but I was pleased to be back.
Mr T you are doing so amazingly x

Morning all. Thanks Action, I think I may have read something along those lines somewhere too. I’ll see if I can read it or maybe I’ll post on road to abstinence and someone can help. I’m back at work this morning. Had an ill health meeting yesterday and agreed I can come back on a very phased retur...

Hi all. Action that sounds like a lovely day and I know what you mean about worrying about stuff to do but if it’s not anything that’s a matter of life and death then does it really matter in the great scheme of things?? Day 4 is great, I’m day 4 today which is good but I’ve had such long runs latel...

Thanks Action
I shall post more later but I’m getting ready to go to my mums. Just wanted to let you all know I’m here and alive!!

Just posted a long message and it deleted!
Tail between legs time, been drinking. Triggered about anxiety about a few things.
Back to it now, I can only keep trying can’t I.
Tad how is your bro? Xxx

Evening all. Been in London all day. Just catching up with posts but am a bit knackered so will post more tomorrow.
Tad, will be waiting to hear how it went?
Action so good to see you. This thread feels like my home now. Wouldn’t want to leave it xxx

Just checking in, rubbish weather here.
Tad you ok?
Nothing really to report groupies xxx

Lovely post Mr T if that makes sense. Very thoughtful and honest. Know what you mean about the direction of chat changing but I’m so glad we can all be so I best and non judgemental in all ways, not just about our drinking. Feel like a group hug right now. Btw is it ok I laughed out loud at your use...

Bye sorry if there’s loads of spelling mistakes. I’m on phone typing and just about to go to gym so no time to reread and I really hope you or any other groupies don’t think I’m encouraging you to leave your OH, I’m just literally giving you my experience and being honest for once, never liked to ad...

Tad xxx I am possibly wrong person to give advice so all I can give is my own experience and my own perspective? You know i recently ish left my ex. Prior to this we hadn’t had sex for years (Ok I will admit to a one off this year which of course was drink induced, i was basically hammered and he pr...

Evening all. Tad you know you can sound off to us about whatever you need to when you’re ready x
Nothing much to report here. Didn’t make gym but did go for a long dog walk with my best mate. Also ate out fir breakfast and for lunch
Still not downloaded the book!

Morning all. Deb so happy to hear you sousing more positive.
I can’t download the book. It only seems to be as an idiot book on Apple Books? I don’t get on with audio books so well.
I’m checking on amazon x