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by soempty
28 Oct 2019 07:50
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Should I let him go now to save the pain ?
Replies: 22
Views: 4935

Re: Should I let him go now to save the pain ?

Hi soberboots, thanks for checking in on me, its been a long hard month. i kicked him out at the start of the month, he was gone 5 days. i had him back on the understanding that he would get some profesional help with his demons. which he did go to drs, did not drink for 2 weeks, and did sign up on ...
by soempty
16 Oct 2019 08:20
Forum: Physical and Mental Health
Topic: Depression, Bipolar and Other Personality Issues.
Replies: 7252
Views: 319132

Re: Depression, Bipolar and Other Personality Issues.

Hi guys, just felt the need to post on here. For the last 4 years I thought our problems was my husbands drinking, but now I can see that drink just drops the mask he has been wearing :(. I can finally see that I have become a victim to a sociopath, and that is hurting me 100 times more, as actually...
by soempty
25 Sep 2019 10:35
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Should I let him go now to save the pain ?
Replies: 22
Views: 4935

Re: Should I let him go now to save the pain ?

Thank you soberboots, sadly I am aware of this fact, and as much as I don't want to turn my back on him, I know I must. My mental, physical and emotional health is suffering because of the years of pain. Sadly he seems to get up and carry on day after day as if nothings happened, where as I feel lik...
by soempty
24 Sep 2019 19:36
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Should I let him go now to save the pain ?
Replies: 22
Views: 4935

Re: Should I let him go now to save the pain ?

Hi shadowlad, thank you for your kind words. yes sadly my husband is very aware of the pain he is causing, this is not the first time it has nearly pushed me over the edge. i am not a quiet person, i am very straight forward and not one to beat around the bush or drop hints, I have tried putting it ...
by soempty
24 Sep 2019 15:08
Forum: General Recovery
Topic: New Members - Please Introduce Yourself Here
Replies: 13995
Views: 742410

Re: New Members - Please Introduce Yourself Here

Thank you all so much for the kind welcome, I am hoping that being a member on here can help me face the "bad days". just by having people around to speak to, who have some understanding of what its really like trying to live with a drinker. I have found it interesting reading post from the "drinker...
by soempty
24 Sep 2019 14:58
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Should I let him go now to save the pain ?
Replies: 22
Views: 4935

Re: Should I let him go now to save the pain ?

Hi all, i have come on here looking for guidance and to try and reach some understanding. I am married to a lovely man ,( until he has had a drink, he is a binge drinker, so we normally hit problems about once a month) then out of nowhere it is like the devil itself is in the bottle, and goes down h...
by soempty
24 Sep 2019 11:34
Forum: General Recovery
Topic: New Members - Please Introduce Yourself Here
Replies: 13995
Views: 742410

Re: New Members - Please Introduce Yourself Here

hi, i have signed up to this group, as i am a wife to a binge drinker, and after yet another awful weekend, im not sure what to do anymore. i love this man , when he is sober, everything is great, but i cant take the constant being let down by his drinking problem. im just looking for someone who ca...