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by dadaben
22 Aug 2008 01:05
Forum: General Recovery
Topic: The Book Club
Replies: 1776
Views: 106212

Anyone like The Rolling Stones?

Just a light hearted, we all can feel good!
by dadaben
21 Aug 2008 21:08
Forum: Relationships
Topic: coming out as a drinker to people close to us
Replies: 108
Views: 21147

Re: Being Honest or living a lie

hi marry rose I know what you mean about the guy in the offy, I have had to use three or four different shops durring the week so I do not look like i drink to much! Never want to turn up at the same shop every night as a regular ! Even found myself making small talk like, oh, got some friends round...
by dadaben
20 Aug 2008 19:48
Forum: Relationships
Topic: coming out as a drinker to people close to us
Replies: 108
Views: 21147

Re: Being Honest or living a lie

thanks you two, the support i feel here is great
ben x
by dadaben
19 Aug 2008 23:52
Forum: Relationships
Topic: coming out as a drinker to people close to us
Replies: 108
Views: 21147

Being Honest or living a lie

I live a lie, my famialy do not no what has happened within my life as a result of drink!
by dadaben
19 Aug 2008 22:35
Forum: General Recovery
Topic: SUPPORT/CHAT/GENERAL - 2008
Replies: 3739
Views: 114085

Re: SUPPORT/CHAT/GENERAL AUGUST 2008

good for you mark, well done, you can and will get there
ben x
by dadaben
19 Aug 2008 22:14
Forum: Relationships
Topic: When loved ones drink and you don't
Replies: 486
Views: 58088

Re: Please help me figure out who has the problem

Hi sweedish girl The problem lies with alcahol, it has ruined my relationship, take away alcahol and see if things may have been different, alcahol has ruined our marriage, life, kids, house, money, our future! Remove the drink! Its not easy, i went for 7 days without then had adrink at the weekend,...
by dadaben
19 Aug 2008 22:05
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Staying Single
Replies: 557
Views: 45098

Re: Being Alone And trying to say goodbye to the booze

Hi frank and sue, I do not have a footie love but love music, recently ive been looking at bands I love on u tube, a drink and music has always made me feel good, Ive had to drink coke whilst watching the rolling stones gig at twikenham that I went to with my estranged wife, it was hard as we both h...
by dadaben
14 Aug 2008 00:02
Forum: Relapsing
Topic: Are you drinking now ?
Replies: 3080
Views: 204205

Re: Drowning ones Sorrows

Oh my f..k
Im off to bed, just thought ild have one last browes, I have a lot to understand, this has hit the nail for me..
Thanks all
ben xxx
by dadaben
13 Aug 2008 23:55
Forum: Relationships
Topic: CO-DEPENDENCY...information for All
Replies: 51
Views: 21017

Re: CO-DEPENDENCY...information for All

hi amber,
stayed up late, its nearly twelve, watched silly film, now im going to bed with your advice
Thanks, take care
ben xx
by dadaben
13 Aug 2008 23:50
Forum: General Recovery
Topic: Old Hops Archive
Replies: 5576
Views: 145655

Re: The Awesome August Hop

HI Darcy,
Its late now, very tierd, should have gone to bed ages ago, drank some tea, never drink tea! Watched tv, silly chucky film, i now hope im tiered enough to sleep without sweating all night
ben x
Ps sorry to you all about my spelling!
xxx
by dadaben
13 Aug 2008 22:09
Forum: Relationships
Topic: CO-DEPENDENCY...information for All
Replies: 51
Views: 21017

Re: CO-DEPENDENCY...information for All

hi amber, thank you for your ideas on sleeping, ill try, i think i have a small fan in a box in the garage, im going to try and read a pat barker book that ive started thee or four times now, always after a drink and each time i was getting into it then woke up with it on my chest! perhaps tonight i...
by dadaben
13 Aug 2008 20:50
Forum: Relationships
Topic: is drinking wrecking your relationship with your partner?
Replies: 687
Views: 76328

Re: Being Reunited

yes! may sound silly, but they are so special to me, I know I need them more than they need me, and when my mum said "we want to take the kids on Holliday," my heart sank - but i knew they would love it. Any way, spoke with them all everyday and they have been spoilt rotten by their grandparents! Ju...
by dadaben
13 Aug 2008 20:33
Forum: Relationships
Topic: is drinking wrecking your relationship with your partner?
Replies: 687
Views: 76328

Re: Being Reunited

Hi all, Im not sure if this irelavent, just wanted to say that I will be reunited with my children tommorow after they went to spain for 5 days! Ive missed them dearly and am so happy that they will come back tommorow! Well - just wanted to say, sorry if its ireliavant - Take care all.
Ben x
by dadaben
13 Aug 2008 20:22
Forum: General Recovery
Topic: Old Hops Archive
Replies: 5576
Views: 145655

Re: The Awesome August Hop

Just found this forum, what a great idea, im on day three, and im struggeling, I was fortunate enough to be given a small amount of money tonight from the best friend ill ever have, as she knew I was broke, I had to chose in my head, fags, some snacks or booze and a few fags. I did it, no booze, fee...
by dadaben
12 Aug 2008 23:19
Forum: General Recovery
Topic: Cutting Down - Archived
Replies: 3762
Views: 173725

Re: Social Drinking - or, 'Cutting down'

hi frank,
its rained all day here
makes it worse when th sun is not shining, this time round its only day 2 for me, a bit piss poor! i know,im impressed by you all though
ben
by dadaben
12 Aug 2008 23:13
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Staying Single
Replies: 557
Views: 45098

Re: Being Alone And trying to say goodbye to the booze

day 2, ill get there? i think, just looking for friends
i feel it here
ben
by dadaben
12 Aug 2008 23:02
Forum: General Recovery
Topic: BE Meeting/Day Trips - Ideas Welcome
Replies: 1792
Views: 82713

Re: BE Meeting/Day Trips - Ideas Welcome

sounds great, might need the NEC!
by dadaben
12 Aug 2008 22:50
Forum: General Recovery
Topic: SUPPORT/CHAT/GENERAL - 2008
Replies: 3739
Views: 114085

Re: SUPPORT/CHAT/GENERAL AUGUST 2008

hi all, just want to say hello. im ben, only joined yesterday,
its lovely to read your support for each other, makes me smile
ben x
by dadaben
12 Aug 2008 21:23
Forum: Relationships
Topic: CO-DEPENDENCY...information for All
Replies: 51
Views: 21017

Re: CO-DEPENDENCY...information for All

Now I have to stop drinking, its hard being alone, but tonight its easy, no money or fags, so night 2, sweat away, I hope i sleep
by dadaben
12 Aug 2008 21:19
Forum: Relationships
Topic: CO-DEPENDENCY...information for All
Replies: 51
Views: 21017

Re: CO-DEPENDENCY...information for All

I was co dependant, its ruined my life, i feel so sorry for the consiquences of my loves life, im sure she feed off my supply of drink, and i feed her, how i wish time could change whats happened, we enjoyed a drink, then it went bad, got to get on now, i hope there may be a future, without drink, -...