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by Enfin
04 Jan 2012 12:41
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Our kids
Replies: 154
Views: 31094

Re: Our kids

Hi Sunworhipper, I'm glad you felt safe to post your thoughts, without fear of getting a knock on the head by less understanding people. I like the saying " you can't change something, that you don't acknowledge" hey. And there's a million other sayings about how " Mount Everest wasn't climbed in on...
by Enfin
19 Sep 2011 17:00
Forum: Physical and Mental Health
Topic: Animal Companions (aka Pets)
Replies: 3183
Views: 175535

Re: animal companions (aka pets)

I'm hearing you here totally, but it's 2 am so I could not reply properly
Quoting here:

" are a 'weakness' of sorts "
"It is not disrespect to anyone who may be over weight"

I think you should read back on what you just wrote somehow.
Let's chat tomorrow, I have to go to bed now.
by Enfin
19 Sep 2011 14:07
Forum: Physical and Mental Health
Topic: Animal Companions (aka Pets)
Replies: 3183
Views: 175535

Re: animal companions (aka pets)

Oh dear, I'm sorry about that. Do you have dreams of swimming up there too in summer ? Sorry you cannot, whilst the deadly jelly fish are around. They'll kill you within 3 minutes for sure. Do you want to know about the sharks as well ? Honestly, the only people who get eaten by crocodiles or other ...
by Enfin
19 Sep 2011 13:32
Forum: Physical and Mental Health
Topic: Animal Companions (aka Pets)
Replies: 3183
Views: 175535

Re: animal companions (aka pets)

Hi, Given that no one seems to read this thread anyway, I reckon we have free range to get to know each other, and to be honest, I don't really care who listens in - we might just be helping someone else by our simple conversation - and that's what it's all about. I guess I just can't imagine having...
by Enfin
17 Sep 2011 15:41
Forum: Physical and Mental Health
Topic: Animal Companions (aka Pets)
Replies: 3183
Views: 175535

Re: animal companions (aka pets)

Beau is much better than Bow or Bo for sure, good choice, and dogs will definately give you unconditional love when your partner pees you off hey ! I wonder what snakes you have - I live in Australia, so we have the most poisonous ones in the world, right here in my back yard. As well as the most fa...
by Enfin
17 Sep 2011 14:26
Forum: Physical and Mental Health
Topic: Animal Companions (aka Pets)
Replies: 3183
Views: 175535

Re: animal companions (aka pets)

Hi, I too can't believe this thread hasn't been picked up - I mean didn't I have a wonderful story about my faithful friends rescuing me or what ?. All these months I've been sitting in a wheelchair, and they've happily let me grab onto the scruff of their necks and pull me around. They've never lef...
by Enfin
29 Aug 2011 10:49
Forum: Physical and Mental Health
Topic: Depression, Bipolar and Other Personality Issues.
Replies: 7352
Views: 471217

Re: Depression, Bipolar and Other Personality Issues.

Hello my friends, Haven't read the link, and don't intend to, But thanks anyway. I kind of grew up with the philosophy of just get over it and get on with it. Sure I was abused as a child. raped, battered, do you want to know more ? Did it effect me ? yes it surely did. Do I have a choice now about ...
by Enfin
24 Aug 2011 14:45
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Anyone Over 50 Here?
Replies: 1072
Views: 77467

Re: anyone over 50 here?

Hi, Not sure if I would call nostalgia a disease, but I get what you're saying. I've always been one to cry over nappy (diaper) adds on tv, when I see a newborn baby I just melt. Now I have my own teenager when I watch a movie about a troubled teenager I want to reach through the screen to cuddle th...
by Enfin
20 Aug 2011 22:55
Forum: Relationships
Topic: The relationship I have with myself.......
Replies: 3065
Views: 223627

Re: The relationship I have with myself.......

I join in, spent a lot of time of my thoughts that I posted, but never acknowledged.
by Enfin
20 Aug 2011 22:38
Forum: Relationships
Topic: The relationship I have with myself.......
Replies: 3065
Views: 223627

Re: The relationship I have with myself.......

I'm still ignored... why ?
by Enfin
20 Aug 2011 21:59
Forum: Relationships
Topic: The relationship I have with myself.......
Replies: 3065
Views: 223627

Re: The relationship I have with myself.......

So happy to hear you got the meaning of that message !
It really shows that you did
by Enfin
20 Aug 2011 21:14
Forum: Relationships
Topic: The relationship I have with myself.......
Replies: 3065
Views: 223627

Re: The relationship I have with myself.......

I really tire of debates when we are all here in this together. Did no one appreciate my quote of Nelson Mandela ? No one has mentioned that they did yet. So read it again please. Might just stop you from attacking each other. We all are entitled to our different opinions about alcoholism, however w...
by Enfin
20 Aug 2011 18:01
Forum: Relationships
Topic: The relationship I have with myself.......
Replies: 3065
Views: 223627

Re: The relationship I have with myself.......

No comment directed at anyone at all.
Just wanted to make sure everyone appreciates Mandela.
Who could possibly deny his words.
Love to everyone.....
by Enfin
20 Aug 2011 17:16
Forum: Relationships
Topic: The relationship I have with myself.......
Replies: 3065
Views: 223627

Re: The relationship I have with myself.......

Did you like Nelson Mandela ? Does that not send shivers up your spine ?

Just going to stick up for Boris here a little.
I agree with everthing that's been posted, but I'm hearing him.
by Enfin
20 Aug 2011 16:03
Forum: Relationships
Topic: The relationship I have with myself.......
Replies: 3065
Views: 223627

Re: The relationship I have with myself.......

Wow !. Just read through the whole thread, but a little scared to say anything. I absolutely see everyone's point of view. It's a real journey isn't it. Nelson Mandela was mentioned, he's my hero, see my signature. I'm posting a part of his speech here below as it's so very inspirational to me. The ...
by Enfin
17 Aug 2011 22:19
Forum: Physical and Mental Health
Topic: Depression, Bipolar and Other Personality Issues.
Replies: 7352
Views: 471217

Re: Depression, Bipolar and Other Personality Issues.

Thanks guys.It's 6.30am still haven't slept, so all kiddies lunches made with a smile, though of course they'll know I haven't slept yet. That's okay. Yes Sb, the pain in my leg is a big contributor to my insomnia. I haven't made it do the doctors yet as I'm awake all night so hard to find the right...
by Enfin
17 Aug 2011 20:30
Forum: Physical and Mental Health
Topic: Depression, Bipolar and Other Personality Issues.
Replies: 7352
Views: 471217

Re: Depression, Bipolar and Other Personality Issues.

Dear Boris,
You ask me questions I could not possibly answer, but I thank you for asking....
by Enfin
17 Aug 2011 17:55
Forum: Physical and Mental Health
Topic: Depression, Bipolar and Other Personality Issues.
Replies: 7352
Views: 471217

Re: Depression, Bipolar and Other Personality Issues.

Ooops ! I just got told off from the bipolar site I help manage here in Oz, that I've been spending too much time caring for everyone else and not letting anyone help me whilst I'm obviously in need. For sure I can't shut up when I'm manic like this, for sure my life quest is to help others, but the...
by Enfin
17 Aug 2011 16:58
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Husband has had enough me
Replies: 56
Views: 7153

Re: Husband has had enough me

I've been following, but waiting for other wiser posts than I could offer and everyone has said exactly what I would have said myself. Lots of wise words here. Just trying to madly think what I would do in such a situation - rather than the usual married thing of avoiding each other and sleeping on ...
by Enfin
17 Aug 2011 16:35
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Husband Hates Me, My Fault!
Replies: 47
Views: 8583

Re: Husband Hates Me, My Fault!

I think we should hand this thread back to the original owner, subject being "My husband hates me, my fault", probably totally scared off by now. I only jumped in when the comment of mental illness being selfish irked me. Definitions of your own alcoholism is very individual, but the facts are there...