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by tj_okay
06 Dec 2020 01:59
Forum: General Recovery
Topic: New Members - Please Introduce Yourself Here
Replies: 14624
Views: 1087880

Re: New Members - Please Introduce Yourself Here

Chineseeyes wrote:
29 Nov 2020 14:54

I started when I was 14yr old I’m now early forty’s! That’s a long time to abuse my body and I’m worried I’ll destroy my liver.

you will destroy your liver
by tj_okay
06 Dec 2020 00:50
Forum: General Recovery
Topic: New Members - Please Introduce Yourself Here
Replies: 14624
Views: 1087880

Re: New Members - Please Introduce Yourself Here

not a new member, been on and off for a while
but now i have found that i have liver damage


please people, stop before you get to where i am
by tj_okay
23 Jan 2018 22:24
Forum: Sobriety Challenges
Topic: The Six Month Challenge
Replies: 16219
Views: 819658

Re: The Six Month Challenge

hey there, I' on day 29, finding it tough right now, was in a bit of a weird place mentally the last few weeks so haven't really properly felt the absence of alcohol until the last week. Anyway, hope to get to know you all and hope you don't mind me joining this one rather than the 3 month one but t...
by tj_okay
23 Jan 2018 22:12
Forum: General Recovery
Topic: New Members - Please Introduce Yourself Here
Replies: 14624
Views: 1087880

Re: New Members - Please Introduce Yourself Here

hey there, I'm not new but not been on here for a while.. I think you can guess what I've been doing with my life. And yeah it has got worse, so very much worse that I finally hit my low (oh I've had a lot of lows but this was a doozey). It was traumatic and humiliating and sadly once I left the hos...
by tj_okay
14 Aug 2015 19:49
Forum: Sobriety Challenges
Topic: The First 7 Days
Replies: 83071
Views: 4994007

Re: The First 7 Days

day 5 done... keep thinking how nice a couple of cold beers would be...
oh well
good luck everyone
peace
tj
by tj_okay
13 Aug 2015 20:45
Forum: Sobriety Challenges
Topic: The First 7 Days
Replies: 83071
Views: 4994007

Re: The First 7 Days

day 4 done here

peace
tj
by tj_okay
12 Aug 2015 21:44
Forum: Sobriety Challenges
Topic: The First 7 Days
Replies: 83071
Views: 4994007

Re: The First 7 Days

day 3 done, side effect of new meds means i'm sleeping 18 hours a day so i feel a bit like i'm cheating. good really 'cause usual side effect of stopping drinking is being unable to sleep. hope you all are okay. sorry for short posts, problems concentrating.
peace
tj
by tj_okay
11 Aug 2015 19:56
Forum: Sobriety Challenges
Topic: The First 7 Days
Replies: 83071
Views: 4994007

Re: The First 7 Days

did day one,on day two
good luck everyone

peace
tj
by tj_okay
09 Aug 2015 20:12
Forum: Sobriety Challenges
Topic: The First 7 Days
Replies: 83071
Views: 4994007

Re: The First 7 Days

hi everyone, back on the 7 day challenge as of tomorrow 'cause i've had a beer today. docs put me on some new meds that i don't want to drink with so we'll see how it goes.
catch you all tomorrow for my day 1 (yet again)

peace
tj
by tj_okay
28 Jul 2015 20:07
Forum: Sobriety Challenges
Topic: Two Week Challenge
Replies: 17244
Views: 996899

Re: Two Week Challenge

slept all day again, woke up at 7pm. getting sick of this i'm aware there is a bit of me deep down planning to drink tonight, i've made it hard by telling the guy in the shop i've given up so it will be a mile and a half walk to the allnight shop... i really want to drink tonight gonna try and get t...
by tj_okay
27 Jul 2015 09:51
Forum: Sobriety Challenges
Topic: Two Week Challenge
Replies: 17244
Views: 996899

Re: Two Week Challenge

hello there! :\:

well i made it, not sure how.

tired, as i didn't sleep again . probably have to go to sleep in a bit.

catch up with all you two weekers later

peace
tj
by tj_okay
27 Jul 2015 00:17
Forum: General Recovery
Topic: Ideas / Improvements / Requests for the Forum
Replies: 2302
Views: 242532

Re: Ideas / Improvements / Requests for the Forum

good idea pjgirl... on a related matter i've often thought a place for real time chat ( typing) would be good on here especially for people who may be posting on the SOS thread and need to talk urgently.
by tj_okay
27 Jul 2015 00:03
Forum: Sobriety Challenges
Topic: The First 7 Days
Replies: 83071
Views: 4994007

Re: The First 7 Days

thankyou ct :D
by tj_okay
26 Jul 2015 23:28
Forum: General Recovery
Topic: The place to say "I haven't had a drink today"
Replies: 30541
Views: 1365040

Re: The place to say "I haven't had a drink today"

well done everyone

no drink for me, 7 days done!
by tj_okay
26 Jul 2015 23:17
Forum: Sobriety Challenges
Topic: The First 7 Days
Replies: 83071
Views: 4994007

Re: The First 7 Days

ok,didn't drink so day 7 done. was tempted but i'd told the guy in the shop that i'd given up so felt too ashamed to buy any. i feel a bit like i've cheated my way to day 7 by sleeping through several days and making it hard for myself to buy alcohol by telling the shop keeper id stopped. done it th...
by tj_okay
26 Jul 2015 19:47
Forum: Physical and Mental Health
Topic: What Has Made You Happy/Angry/Sad/Proud/Grateful Today?
Replies: 4014
Views: 221991

Re: What Has Made You Happy/Angry/Sad/Proud Today?

you have my sympathy finley, i know from personal experience how difficult it can be to get the police to do anything. i was actually physically assaulted last year in my own home, the police came and took the person away but refused to do anything further... i had to threaten the police with a comp...
by tj_okay
26 Jul 2015 19:22
Forum: Sobriety Challenges
Topic: The First 7 Days
Replies: 83071
Views: 4994007

Re: The First 7 Days

hi everyone, mooths.. you can always tell em you can't drink cause you are on antibiotics.. metronidazole is an antibiotic you can't drink with, had it for a tooth absess before. on day 7, feeling oddly flat . no sense of achievement or anything... just tired. but never mind. too many people to call...
by tj_okay
25 Jul 2015 13:03
Forum: General Recovery
Topic: General Support and Chat
Replies: 13043
Views: 878529

Re: General Support and Chat

buckley, i totally get it, how alcohol is a place to hide .. often from the problems which alcohol has caused. it's a bloody nightmare, been doing it for years. i often found though that i ended up in tears or self harming when drinking so not sure how delusional i was in thinking it was numbing eve...
by tj_okay
25 Jul 2015 04:05
Forum: General Recovery
Topic: SOS - Post here if you need help (No General Chat Please)
Replies: 11700
Views: 907629

Re: SOS - Post here if you need help (No General Chat Please)

hope you are okay lovefromhate...
i have found the samaritans an absolute god send in these situations , no idea why it helps but it does ... easier to talk to a stranger and all that.
you ARE worth something

sending you loving kindness
tj
by tj_okay
25 Jul 2015 03:58
Forum: Sobriety Challenges
Topic: The First 7 Days
Replies: 83071
Views: 4994007

Re: The First 7 Days

hello everyone, well here i am at ridiculous o clock ... on day 6 though i cheated a bit by sleeping most of yesterday. chifffon... funny you should mention cupasoup... i had one yesterday which i am counting as a meal, so yesterday i had two meals... even though it was toast and a cupasoup better t...