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by homeluvinman
29 Dec 2011 23:17
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Losing all hope..
Replies: 4
Views: 1254

Re: Losing all hope..

Hi Stuart. Firstly, a big step for you to come on here and pour it out, so thanks for doing just that. I can't agree or disagree with Freefall or Tim as I am sure there is much much more you know that you have not shared. What I do know is that you are with your partner because you love her and have...
by homeluvinman
28 Nov 2011 20:00
Forum: Relationships
Topic: I can't cope much longer.
Replies: 23
Views: 3067

Re: I can't cope much longer.

Hi Grendleslip.
Understood, believed and felt it. Hope you're ok!

HLM
by homeluvinman
28 Nov 2011 14:22
Forum: Relationships
Topic: I can't cope much longer.
Replies: 23
Views: 3067

Re: I can't cope much longer.

someonehelpme2 - It is tragic that you are facing this crisis when you should be doing nothing but enjoying your new addition. There is a lot of good advice here from people who have 'been there' and 'done that'. I posted my cry for help last month and the replies and advice I got actually gave me t...
by homeluvinman
08 Nov 2011 22:11
Forum: Relationships
Topic: One Last Chance - can anyone help?
Replies: 13
Views: 1831

Re: One Last Chance - can anyone help?

Hi Lils Thank you so much for your kindness, you have no idea how good it felt to read your words. I would never had imagined in my wildest dreams that I would be in this dark place but here I am and now, by luck, I found BE and so much support, advice and encouragement. Madman - I wonder, I wonder....
by homeluvinman
08 Nov 2011 08:56
Forum: Relationships
Topic: One Last Chance - can anyone help?
Replies: 13
Views: 1831

Re: One Last Chance - can anyone help?

Dear All Once again, thanks for all you support and encouragement, as well as giving me new triggers to think about. The good news is my wife has decided to go to see a CBT as soon as an appointment can be made (maybe tonight!!!). This is a huge step forward and the momentum now needs to be maintain...
by homeluvinman
07 Nov 2011 22:21
Forum: Relationships
Topic: One Last Chance - can anyone help?
Replies: 13
Views: 1831

Re: One Last Chance - can anyone help?

Hi Winker I read you reply this morning and have spent all day mulling it over and can see the benefits of involving professional services but something is stopping me from making that call. I am no stranger to confrontation but not for confrontations sake. I managed to write down to the usual pro's...
by homeluvinman
07 Nov 2011 09:54
Forum: Relationships
Topic: One Last Chance - can anyone help?
Replies: 13
Views: 1831

Re: One Last Chance - can anyone help?

Thank you REMF, Grendelslip and Winker for your honesty and frankness. Of course the Children are the priority. They are my wifes children but, as 'step-dad' they are also mine; more so during these episodes as I need to protect everyone in the house, not just my wife. When all this came out into th...
by homeluvinman
07 Nov 2011 00:28
Forum: Relationships
Topic: One Last Chance - can anyone help?
Replies: 13
Views: 1831

One Last Chance - can anyone help?

That sounds like a cry for help - and it is. I am sitting writing this with the usual stomach churning, head buzzing, worried sick feeling and don't know what to do next. My wife and I met 4 years ago and got to know each other in the usual 'dating' way - dinner, a few drinks, meeting each others fr...