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Are you drinking now ?

Any tips or advice to prevent a relapse, alternatively any of your stories about your own relapses.
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Re: Are you drinking now ?

Post by SoberBoots » 10 May 2019 18:05

Aww Mariet, I do feel for you.
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Re: Are you drinking now ?

Post by martha » 10 May 2019 18:08

Mariet wrote:
10 May 2019 15:50
Thanks Pickles, TS.

Pork I burst into tears when I saw your video. I have 2 cats a tabby and a ginger, but the oldest (a much chubbier version of the cat lying down on the floor) does not like the younger one. They are both strays I took in.

Wish I could beat this but can't. Drinking 40% vodka and will not stop until it's gone.
Marie <:)>

Sorry today's been like this. Maybe don't think of the big picture of "beating it" but just looking after yourself for day, whatever that takes. And tomorrow see it as not drinking just for that one day? Sometimes the big picture can be too overwhelming.

It's good you posted. Let us know how you are when you can <:)>
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Re: Are you drinking now ?

Post by martha » 10 May 2019 18:44

Mariet wrote:
10 May 2019 18:34
Thank you SB and Martha.
<:)>

Love your pic, Marie! Remember Dorothy on the yellow-brick road looking for something amazing .... and all at the end of the day she had the power within herself 8-)
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Re: Are you drinking now ?

Post by Pork » 10 May 2019 19:00

Mariet wrote:
10 May 2019 18:55
Goodbye Martha <:)>
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Re: Are you drinking now ?

Post by Tai » 11 May 2019 07:16

So, today is a new day Mariet <:)> and I hope you aren’t feeling too dreadful. Take it very easy on yourself today and please don’t believe that part of yourself that is telling you that it’s hopeless so you might as well drink. It’s not true. It feels hopeless perhaps, but feelings are not facts. The fact is that we can change. We have to want to, and we have to be willing to do whatever it takes, but it can be done. Don’t lose sight of that. <:)>
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Post by martha » 11 May 2019 09:18

Hi Mariet, I hope you're feeling ok today <:)>

What Tai says is all very true <:)>
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So, today is a new day Mariet <:)> and I hope you aren’t feeling too dreadful. Take it very easy on yourself today and please don’t believe that part of yourself that is telling you that it’s hopeless so you might as well drink. It’s not true. It feels hopeless perhaps, but feelings are not facts. The fact is that we can change. We have to want to, and we have to be willing to do whatever it takes, but it can be done. Don’t lose sight of that. <:)>
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Post by Ruby&Tilly » 17 Aug 2019 22:07

Well this wasn't exactly planned! (w) Bought a bottle of wine on my way home (w) I guess I'm still within my allowed limits but tonight it's my AV talking, not the moderating voice.

I've decided to drink when I'm on holiday (it's back on!) and that's when the permission thoughts get the better of me, it's not even sociable, Jim said I should go home if I want to drink and that's what I've done. Honestly, I prefer drinking alone, listening to music and talking to folks on the phone. Hoping to do the 100 days when I came back from holiday. :mrgreen:

Don't know what the point of this rambling is, just wanted to get it off my chest.

Ruby xx
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Re: Are you drinking now ?

Post by Cowboy » 31 Oct 2019 14:58

This is probably a good place for me to stay in touch with the group albeit not under ideal circumstances. All of my BE friends are pm'ing me to tell me to stay in touch with BE. No matter what stay in touch. I'm not feeling really great about myself at the moment and I really don't want to bring down all of the positiveness I am reading on my regular thread. So here I am drinking - now. Not heavily. Not out of control. That comes weeks later - unless I stop. No sympathy here folks. I am ultimately in charge of my own destiny and take full responsibility for my action. Just staying in touch because I think it's best.
The two most important days in your life are the day you are born and the day you find out why. Mark Twain.

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Post by Pork » 31 Oct 2019 16:15

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My last day of drinking today.
Only going to buy a couple of ales on long commute home.
Then this pig getting sober 👍😎

You can get back on the train too cowboy 🤠

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Post by SoberBoots » 31 Oct 2019 17:55

I do really feel for you CB. It seems so hard to get your mojo back once you're drinking again. It's an excellent idea to stay in touch on the forum though. It's likely to help with damage limitation and combat that (false) sense of hopelessness and isolation that sometimes comes with drinking.

Good on you Pork. Here's to a sober November!
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Post by Pork » 31 Oct 2019 20:08

Damn right Sally.
Enjoying second & last (for a while at least) beer.
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Will do it at work.
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Re: Are you drinking now ?

Post by Cowboy » 02 Nov 2019 14:00

Thx SB and Pork.

No "medicine" for me today. It's a start.
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Post by Tai » 02 Nov 2019 15:27

Yes indeed it all starts with a sober day Cowboy. Don’t lose heart mate, yes it’s difficult but even so it’s doable ... and so worth it.
A little knowledge that acts is worth infinitely more than much knowledge that is idle.
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Re: Are you drinking now ?

Post by Shadowlad » 02 Nov 2019 16:01

I second that too Cowboy ;)? <:)>
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Re: Are you drinking now ?

Post by Cowboy » 04 Nov 2019 21:29

Thanks Tai and Shadowlad. Feels good to not.
The two most important days in your life are the day you are born and the day you find out why. Mark Twain.

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Re: Are you drinking now ?

Post by Sandpoint » 06 Nov 2019 18:13

Yes.

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Post by SoberBoots » 06 Nov 2019 18:31

Sandpoint wrote:
06 Nov 2019 18:13
Yes.
<:)> Tomorrow's a new day Sandpoint. Make sure you have plenty of water and try to get to bed early.
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Re: Are you drinking now ?

Post by Tai » 07 Nov 2019 05:51

We live and learn eh? I always found it hard to look beyond how bad I was feeling to work out what went wrong and thus what I might try to get around whatever obstacle was keeping me from staying sober. I had to stop focusing on how awful I was feeling because it wasn’t at all constructive. Plenty of hydration today SP, treat yourself gently and don’t give up. It takes a fair bit of practise to get the hang of this staying sober malarkey <:)>
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Re: Are you drinking now ?

Post by Sandpoint » 07 Nov 2019 08:51

Thanks SB and Tai. Detoxing today.
Tai wrote:
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It takes a fair bit of practise to get the hang of this staying sober malarkey
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Re: Are you drinking now ?

Post by Pork » 23 Nov 2019 10:34

Yes.
I want to stop though.
Going to try real hard tomorrow.
I do appreciate the support here.
Just seem stuck back drinking.
Hate myself thoughts starting to embed in my head again.
Lush mentioned AA. But I’m not sure on the whole share circle idea.

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