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Re: The Two and Three Month Challenge

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Re: The Two and Three Month Challenge

Post by Cherry10 » 28 Oct 2019 11:05

Morning all :\:
Day 47
Well done Mackintosh & a good idea of cranberry (which I love) in a wine glass!
Great to read your thoughts Dougal & Leslans, so much of what you guys have experienced resonates with me. Particularly planning a relapse into drinking which my subconscious mind is doing for my OH impending birthday weekend away in November :o hope I can stay strong

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Re: The Two and Three Month Challenge

Post by Jj123 » 28 Oct 2019 15:49

Hi guys 28 days today so guess I’ve managed 4 weeks looking forward to getting to know you. JJ
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Re: The Two and Three Month Challenge

Post by Dougal » 28 Oct 2019 19:52

Hi JJ! 28 days.....that’s amazing!
I’m loving the wine glass containing cranberry juice idea....genius. (::) I have a black tie do in a week or 2 (already slightly dreading, it’s for charity but most are going for the partying) and I think this could be my drink for the evening! Would that work for you Cherry, for the birthday thing?

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Re: The Two and Three Month Challenge

Post by Jj123 » 28 Oct 2019 20:43

So agree guys on the nice glass point. I drink elderflower tonic in a big balloon glass with fresh lime chilli and loads of ice. Helps me. Thanks for welcome. JJ
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Re: The Two and Three Month Challenge

Post by Leslans » 29 Oct 2019 07:19

Day 65 here on a cold and frosty morning in deepest Cheshire. Just spent a couple of days in North Wales, Anglesey. It was beautiful over there. Good times. Off golfing again today. Happy days everyone <:)>
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Re: The Two and Three Month Challenge

Post by Mackintosh » 29 Oct 2019 09:56

Morning all...welcome JJ good to have you along.
Struggled yesterday, mood was low and felt overwhelmed...stayed AF though. It's bright and sunny today and riding and swimming later so onwards and upwards.
Stay strong....keep.positive.
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Re: The Two and Three Month Challenge

Post by Cherry10 » 29 Oct 2019 12:24

Hi everyone
Welcome JJ :\: & congrats..it is a great feeling to hit the monthly milestones.
Yes I think the soft drinks in wine glass are def the way forward for social events, will be giving it a go.
Day 48 have a good one

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Re: The Two and Three Month Challenge

Post by Jj123 » 29 Oct 2019 15:05

Thanks guys for the welcome means a lot. In London for work and having major permission thoughts. Always used to enjoy a couple at the airport after a busy meeting. I won’t drink though. I’ve got the car at the other end. Still it’s a tough old journey. JJ
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Re: The Two and Three Month Challenge

Post by Jj123 » 29 Oct 2019 15:07

Also initially I had only pledged a month but as I’ve move through the weeks I’ve decided on 100 days and moving towards thinking sobriety is the only life choice to suit me. However still have that link with old triggers big time. I’m not going to let them win though. Dig deep. JJ
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Re: The Two and Three Month Challenge

Post by Leslans » 29 Oct 2019 22:22

Crashed and burned. So sorry :|
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Re: The Two and Three Month Challenge

Post by Cherry10 » 30 Oct 2019 12:12

Hey Leslans, it is such a bloody tough journey, but at least you did clock up a lot of AF days which is a great achievement. <:)>
Hope you got through your low spell Mackintosh, feeling a bit like that myself this week. Suffering from AF boredom syndrome. Ridiculous really I know, hope to keep making strides.
Day 49 (7 weeks today) a total miracle for me

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Re: The Two and Three Month Challenge

Post by Dougal » 30 Oct 2019 20:05

Leslans <:)> ....be kind to yourself.

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Re: The Two and Three Month Challenge

Post by Jj123 » 31 Oct 2019 06:26

Day 31 sober October done so proud first time AF in 6 yrs where I challenged myself to six months. Round two I feel quite different as it’s for good in my mind. Feels overwhelming but also liberating. Early days I know and this month is a real challenge big 50 with lots of party obstacles to get by but I’m fast forwarding to December and getting ready for sober Christmas!! Thanks my lovely friends. Have a great Halloween!! JJ
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Re: The Two and Three Month Challenge

Post by Mackintosh » 31 Oct 2019 09:02

Morning everyone.....well done JJ and cherry!!
So sorry Lesians you did so very well...jump back up onto that wagon <:)>
Good day riding yesterday and rounded the day off with the new Terminator movie 😊
Have a good one guys.
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Re: The Two and Three Month Challenge

Post by Cherry10 » 31 Oct 2019 10:30

Oooh love the pic! Happy Halloween one & all :evil:
Feeling a bit more positive today
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Re: The Two and Three Month Challenge

Post by Jj123 » 31 Oct 2019 11:24

Mackintosh wrote:
31 Oct 2019 09:02
Morning everyone.....well done JJ and cherry!!
So sorry Lesians you did so very well...jump back up onto that wagon <:)>
Good day riding yesterday and rounded the day off with the new Terminator movie 😊
Have a good one guys. happy-halloween-starry-night-pumpkin-jack-o-lantern-animated-gif-image.gif
I bet riding is the bees knees for blowing the cobwebs away Macintosh?
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Re: The Two and Three Month Challenge

Post by Jj123 » 01 Nov 2019 16:23

Hi guys hope you all have a wonderful weekend. Day 32 for me. Bring on sober November
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Re: The Two and Three Month Challenge

Post by Cherry10 » 01 Nov 2019 19:25

Hi Mackintosh & JJ :\:
Time to put up our weekend shields!
Good luck to all of us
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Re: The Two and Three Month Challenge

Post by Dougal » 01 Nov 2019 19:37

Day 42 (I think 🤔) for me and sipping tea on a Friday night, who’d have thought!
Have a great weekend all..

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Re: The Two and Three Month Challenge

Post by Jj123 » 01 Nov 2019 20:08

Shields up cherry mackintosh and dougal you are all an inspiration. Weekend 5 for me. Feels okay tonight. JJ
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