Bright Eye

Thank you sooooo much youre worth it. You always write such encouraging posts and to be honest I look forwards to hearing from you. I think we all get so self centred in this goal of sobreity that we sometimes forget to truly thank people. So thank you to all my firends and supporters. Zindaig - sna...

Thats such a good idea youre worth it. I will write down my goals too. FOUR MONTHS!!!!!!!!!! No more writing down days sober, but in months. Yayyyyyyy.Gonna bake a cake today with my girls and should be ready and iced with the number 4 by tomorrow. My kids are so proud and even if they dont say it, ...

Countdown to 4 months sober has begun. Feel quite emotionl. Amazing journey of discovery when many truths were learnt about myself and others around me. But what a double win!! I just wish ppl would realise what an amazing thing we are doing. This is no joke. Most ppl I know cant imagine an evening ...

Tried posting a reply of thanks to everyone, esp Boris bike but my internet is being very silly today so just to say thanks, really appreciate that there is someone in this world who knows wot i am going through. <:)> I am 90% confident you have found the right place, Zindagi. Bright Eye has been of...

Hello everyone. Was looking for a four month challenge but was guided here. I am on day 107 now and feeling fantstic. Just one or two issues with partner being a ****head. He still drinks and does not like my sobreity. I think he is scared of all the changes around the house. I found hidden bottles ...

Thanks sunworshipper. I really appreciate that. Will join the 6 month challenge NOW. Not sure wot you mean by woody goes hops??? Is that like code for something? haha..... yeh u r right the OH is more like Bitter Half at the mo. not really sure wot his problem is. I have changed and obvioulsy I am s...

Hi #1 I am on day 106 n was looking for the 4 month challenge but couldnt find one. Can i create a topic/new thread or do the admins? ?? #2 I am having great difficulties re-gaining the trust n confidence of ppl around me even though i have come so far!!!! #3 my partner is making my sobreity very ve...

in addition to the above any ladies in particular who wouldnt mind sharing their domestic tips for recovering helps, please inbox, private message and then maybe we can chat on the phone TNX

Day 75...feels great, no thoughts on alchohol but just being generally thrown about by life's pace and trials. Very occasional thought of it quickly turns to disgust. Got so much to think about instead. One thing is though, sobreity has quite literally opened my eyes!! I see things for what they are...

Hi there new image. \:)/ Hurray for us (::) We are the fortunate ones who made it thus far Sad to think such a great singer as Whitney Houston left this world through alcohol and addiction :( Dont worry, I will be okay and AF just need to focus on me n kids n home no one else can come between me and...

Hi there peeps. Great name meaning Zindagi. Yes life IS wonderful when there isn't a big black cloud hanging over it. I feel at peace with myself these days instead of carrying round the heavy sadness I feel when drinking.You are right to concentrate on yourself at the moment and your kids. Leave y...

thanks kate5 and youre worth it. It feels great to have completed two months. I feel so empowered and much better mother and person. The only thing that worries me is as i grow more and more sober my husband's reality becomes soo much more evident, his lies, deceit, drinking, cheating, emotional abu...

THANK YOU EVERYONE

It does feel great. I feel like a steam engine, full of energy and enthuasism....I will be in my posh frock at the celebration of bright eyes forum at the lounge c ya'all there .......

completing 2 month challenge at midnight...so here I am joining the 3 month challenge (although I know deep somewhere that I dont want this poison anymore EVER) but still need big hugs and support

Hi...I complete my two months in a few hours from now...so 60 days plus of no alcohol...hurray for me!!!

Thank you Linda 6666

I will celebrate day 35 here tomorrow, Yay for me!!!!

Hi I am on day 34 with (2 slip-ups, one of them potentially serious enough) but pulled myself back on the wagon again. I did it all on my own with the help of just one special friend who has counselling experience. But no medication nothing, just will power. So it is possible. I think people over-em...